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Hi, I'm 18/female. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years, and it seems as if we have hit a spot in our relationship that we probably won't be able to overcome. It hurts like pure hell to know that the end is probably drawing near. So I need help from the experienced in this area. What are some tips on pulling through a bad, no, a horrible separation? I just need help before I lose my mind. (link)
Well that's a pretty negative way of putting it. Relationships are tough it's not always going to be fun. I'm sure you've hit some dead ends in your relationship and have overcome them. The point of these "bumps" is hwo stronger your relationship is. Sometimes its just a phase and sometimes things happen. I don't exactly know whats going on with you two but in every relationship I'm hopeful for myself and for other people. At the end of the day its whether or not you both want to fix this and make it work. Maybe you need sometime away from your boyfriend and maybe make a date night once a week or something. Remember why you got together in the first place and why you love him. I know it's hard but don't think negatively because it's not going to help. Maybe try talking to him and expressing your concerns about your relationships. Keep your head up and I hope everything works out for the best!


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Thank you so much! This is encouraging. We did break up, but the idea is "taking a break" to make things better, and currently, we are getting along a lot better. Thanks again!




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