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hello everyone.. i can't stop thinking about my girlfriend's past.. she had relationship with other guy for 6 yrs...we have been in relations for 8 months now.. lately i only picture of her being in physical activities wid other guy. i am sorry i might sound somewhat weird but it wasn't my problem when she told me everything at the beginning.. sometime i think i deserve better woman than her... i tend to think nowadays that she was used and dumped so i don't know if i would be able to love her as a wife.. having these things in mind.. we used to talk about getting married soon but now i am confused. can you guys give me some advices..
its not that i have not fool around wid other gals before but still ....double standards i guessss...
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This is probably a great example of why people shouldn't talk too much about their exes in a new relationship!
I believe the whole point of dating to be finding the one you either want to have a serious relationship with or the one you eventually want to marry. Some people have other ideas of dating such as a hook up, friends with benefits, or even short term relationships.
If you're questioning your feelings for this girl you need to really think about it. To go on with a relationship and not tell your partner how you're truly feeling is not fair. You need to decide do you see a future with her or not?
If you do then by means that's great. Don't continue comparing yourself to her ex because you aren't him. Your relationship with her is different from the relationship she had with him. Maybe tell her how you've been feeling or thinking and she waht she says. Have you talked to her about it?
If you don't see her in your future and you don't want to continue the relationship you need to be honest with her. Tell her how you're feeling and what's been bothering you.
To talk about a future or possible marriage is big and girls don't take it lightly. I've talked to my boyfriend about the possibly future and it excites me. If he were to ever question something I would hope he would talk to me and be honest with me. Communication is key in a relationship. So talk to her about it or if you feel like it's not going to work you need to talk to her about it. Good luck and I hope everything works out!
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