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ugh its been about 4 years now that i've liked a guy. i haven't gotten over him not even once. i've tried but it doesn't work. everyone tells me to get over him, but i just can't i don't wanna get over him. i've never talked to him, and i don't think i will ever have the courage or strength to... he is a huge star player on his football team. and he is well known all over my school. i can't just tell him how i feel, but i want to. he's know for 4 years that i've liked him. oh btw i'm a sophomore in high school and he's a junior. anyways if i talk to him i know he would tell his friends. i put myself down because of him, and tell myself i'm not good enough for him. he's kinda a bad kid, well that's what i've heard. he smokes and all that crap, but he's not obsessed with it. and i'm all innocent, i've never done any of those things. i just wish i could be with someone like him. i've wanted him for so long, and i don't wanna go on for the rest of high school waiting for him to talk to me. cause i know that's never going to happen. he's so much popular than me and he looks at me a lot.. i figured that means something, right? and i am not a stalker, k? a lot of people think i am because i talk about him all the time, but that's not a stalker. i am just head over heels for this kid. so please just give any advice that you can to help me get through this, thanks. (link)
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You sound just like me when I was in high school. And you seem like in a bit of a tug and war with what you really want.
There was this guy I really liked for awhile he was a freshmen in college and I was a junior in high school. I liked him he was a really nice guy, but he hung out with a crowd that was known as the popular crowd. I considered myself to be average and could never imagine being with someone that hung out with people in the "in crowd". My junior prom was coming up and I thought I would go out of my way to try to ask him. I talked to him online and asked him if I could call him and talk. He gave me his number and I was so scared to call but I did and I asked him to prom. He went to prom with me and it made me so happy because I didn't for once feel like that "average girl". About a couple of weeks after prom I told him how I felt and unfortunately he didn't feel the same way. I felt dumb stupid and said I regretted telling him how I felt. The mature guy he was told me I shouldn't feel stupid for saying how I feel or telling someone how I feel. He said "When one door closes another one opens". Back then I didn't believe him but now that saying makes more and more sense to me everyday.
By you ignoring your feelings for this guy is not going to make them go away. Its going to make you always wonder "what if". I'm glad I said what I had to say to that guy I liked because if I hadn't I wouldn't have taken a risk and put myself out there. And so what if you tell him you like him whats the worst he could say? No? That's not the end of the world its just that he wasn't the one for you. That person will come along when you least expect it!
Don't listen to what your friends say or want you to do. Do what makes you feel comfortable! Good luck!
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thank you so much! this helped and i do plan on, one day telling him how i really feel. and i hope what happened to you, will happen to me!
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