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I understand that it's fishy that he's not letting you see his house, as this could be signs of a double life. However I think that it's a good sign that he wants for you to get along with his mother, to me that shows that he wants for you to be included in family events, and rules out the fact that he's living a double life. Guys want to do things to impress their girlfriends, and he may be afraid of you judging him based on what his house looks like, as silly as it sounds after three years of dating.
You really do need to work out these issues with his mom, for most men their mother is an extremely important person in their lives. When his mother says nasty things to you, put a smile and just ignore it. If she says something to you that you find insulting don't say anything back, I know it's hard to do but fighting with his mother is really bad news.
If you are curious as to why she didn't invite you to Thanksgiving, why don't you call her? Do you not know her phone number? Call her and tell her that you know that the two of you don't get along and you think it's time to put your differences behind you, you've spoken to her son and it bothers him that the two most important women in his life aren't getting along very well, and ask her how come she didn't invite you to their house for Thanksgiving. Let her know that the two of you are both major parts of his son's life, and if she can tolerate you for Thanksgiving it would probably mean A LOT to her son.
Best of luck and if you decide to follow my advice, give me feedback and let me know if I helped you at all.
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