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Hey guys!
Thisis kind of a long story but I could really use any advice..
My boo and I broke up around a month and a half ago and I cant shake him from my head. Its not that im sitting at home moping...i just cant stopconsidering if maybe he was the one for me. We just werent working out and the break up was mutual although he talked about dating in the future. He hasn't said reallly anything to me except wish me a happyyy birthday and tell me he loves me.this was like 2 weeks ago but nothing since.I'm so scared that me going and hanging out with other guys is going to ruin my chances of him coming back but my friends insist that I'm doing the right thing and he isnt whats best for me. I wish I believed them but I just keep thinking of him coming back like he previously has. I know it won't work right now but I feel so empty and like I'm going to be alone forever.it's noy that I have a bad personality or looks, guys seem to be interested in me alot..its just I find things I dont like about them and consider waiting for my ex who honestly kindatreated me badly at times. I reallly want to move on and trust that if its meant to be then it will but I cant help thinking that everything worth while ids hard work...although he should put in the work since he wasthe one who began pulling away. Can someone please help me. I know I cant go back but I'm confused if I'm making a mistake letting him go...please help, havent been this messed up in a while..:( (link)
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It's hard to let go of someone you have been with for awhile. You feel hurt and you feel like there is no one in this world who could make you feel like he did. I don't know what is to become of your future. No one knows who they are going to end up with in the end. You talking to him is not going to help you move on and by you thinking that there is a future between the two of you is not helping you move on. Now I'm not saying that it won't work in the future but you can't hold on to that hope. Go out there and be yourself and date and have fun. Life is too short to concern yourself with just him. You have to make you happy and this time is about you not him. Trying be positive and try thinking about yourself and what you want out of life. I hope you feel better!
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