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Q: so, yesterday was mine and my boyfriends 6th moth anniversary. And we kind of had a argument, yesterday morning he thought I was mad at him because he got a text from me saying 'I hate seeing you beat yourself up over things.' I didn't send that, and if I did it was a long time ago. Then I over reacted when he and I were hanging out... I just knew something was wrong from the way he was acting. Then his mom came home and I told her my friend offered for me to go to New York with her and our best friend. I didn't tell him right away because I knew that would upset him more. we got better for about an hour, then I tried tickling him, just for fun... He kind of got pissed off and told me that he hates it when I do it all the time. So I said I would stop, and I don't know how, but he got all emotional saying 'he ruined our anniversary','why are you even here? You deserve better', 'that I'll leave him eventually' I know I wont, what can I do to show him that I'll always love him?
It sounds like he was in a pretty bad mood, my boyfriend has been in these kind of moods before as well. I think that this is quite a common mood to be in, and he probably feels like crap for starting a fight with you on your 6 month anniversary.

I would say sit him down and talk to him, tell him that you love him and forgive him for getting in such a bad mood. Whenever he's in a mood like that, and he's talking to you listen to him... and try to be as supportive as possible. Having a boyfriend is a lot like having a really good friend that you have a more romantic relationship with, they need the same kind of support that you would give to a friend :).

thanks :)

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