Q: ok im a sophomore this year and i dated this jerk in 7th grade and he was awful to me and dumped me repeatedly and cheated on me so much and i dumped him the last time and totally refuse to talk to him. i seriously hate him like everytime hes around or i hear about him i got instantly heated and angry. its been like 4 years and im still not over him even though i make it seem like i am. what can i do?
Well it's obvious that the feelings that you had formed for him were real and that you actually let your heart go and you gave it to him. You still think about the good times correct? Well that is because you gave your heart out on the person that treated you right, in the first place. If you still think about it and it happens continuously I would suggest talking to a counselor about how you are feeling and finally let go of him. You will be happier once you let go of what once was. Good luck sweetie.
Its hard to talk about it but i will take that into consideration. i dont talk to him and tell myself ive let go but i havent and i feel like i never will. thanks for the advice.
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