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I'm just an average person. I love to help people out :) it makes me feel better about myself. I've been in a lot of situations so I can most likely relate to a lot of your problems. I know what it feels like to not have anyone to talk to about your problems, which is why i'm an advicenator. I'm ready to help people and be there for everyone who needs advice or just a companion to speak out to. I'm always here if you need me, don't hesitate to drop a question or even just a vent/rant note about a problem to my advice column inbox. I respond to all of them regardless of the topic. I'm upfront and abrupt about my answers and never sugarcoat. Take my advice or not, but i'm just doing my job :)Played volleyball for over 10 years, also a coach. I love to try new things. Currently I'm trying the new sport of tennis and learning about my passion of photography.
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There is a guy who accidentally texted me as a wrong number. I told him it was wrong, but he continued texting me on multiple occasions, knowing I was someone he didn't know. We had some nice conversations and flirted a bit. He lives about three hours away from me and is 16. He wants to come visit me, but he can't drive. I'm 17 and can drive, but not that far - my parents wouldn't let me. I wouldn't want to either because I don't really know him. One day he got very intense with the flirting and asked if he were to ask me out what I would say. I told him maybe, clearly stressing that we don't each other and would have to get to know each other in order for me to date him. He then asked that if we dated if we would make out a lot. This kind of creeped me out. He also asked if we were now dating, I told him no because we have never met. I haven't texted him since that time and have just ignored his texts, but I feel bad. I don't know what to do and my friends tell me just to continue ignoring him, but I don't want to hurt him. Help! He also asked for a picture, but i refused to send one saying my phone was broken. He wanted to friend me on Facebook but I never told him my last name and he never asked for it.
is this creepy?.. yeah.
how do you really know if its a 16 year old boy? not a 50 year old pervert man who wants to rape you?? always think about the consequences.
It doens't make sense to me because if he lives 3 hours away.. how can he get your number and just start texting you like that?? Its just so random and strange.
Let me just tell you 1 thing.. sometimes you just can't trust everyone. Trust is a valuable thing. It comes with loyalty and friendship. Don't give out your trust to random people, only give it to people who deserve it. This guy doesn't deserve your trust because you barely know him or met him. If you knew him and were close friends, then yeah you could trust him. but I just have a bad feeling about this kid.
Ignore him and find better guys out there who won't stalk you :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks for your help. I don't really trust him. The only thing he knows about me is my age and first name. And I should have been mentioned he texted my iPod number not my cell number. My friends don't even know the number for my iPod. The numbers are completely random so there's a chance that his friend's is similar to mine.