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Okay so there is this real close friend of mine.We are classmates. And we had this sleepover, a couple of us, guys and girls. I just broke up two months back with my bf who cheated..so i am still getting over it...And my friend broke up a few days ago. We ended up chatting throughout the night, and i dont know what happened but we ended up kissing each other too..it was not our intention of doing ANYTHING like that. we pretty much have feelings for our ex's and not each other. i dont know why and how it happened.
we have promised not to tell this to anyone. and that this incident will stay a secret between the two of us forever. but i feel weird about it, i feel disgusted for doing such a stupid thing now. do you think things will change because of this? i am scared he would tell someone which i really dont want.HELP. how should i handle this?
You didn't do anything wrong by kissing him since you were both single at the time, but could you maybe be feeling like you were sort of cheating back at your ex? If your friend has feelings for you that you don't have for him, maybe you're feeling bad about that? Try talking all of this out in a journal, if you can't confide in your friend. I've been through a lot of relationship drama, and I find the more I talk to myself about it, the more I can figure out about myself and my feelings. I hope you and your friend continue to stay friends and that you work through your negative feelings.
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thanks :)
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