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Okay so there is this real close friend of mine.We are classmates. And we had this sleepover, a couple of us, guys and girls. I just broke up two months back with my bf who cheated..so i am still getting over it...And my friend broke up a few days ago. We ended up chatting throughout the night, and i dont know what happened but we ended up kissing each other too..it was not our intention of doing ANYTHING like that. we pretty much have feelings for our ex's and not each other. i dont know why and how it happened.
we have promised not to tell this to anyone. and that this incident will stay a secret between the two of us forever. but i feel weird about it, i feel disgusted for doing such a stupid thing now. do you think things will change because of this? i am scared he would tell someone which i really dont want.HELP. how should i handle this?
you can either completely ignore it and move on with your life. Or you can talk to that guy and get closer with him. If you guys kissed, well it obviously means something. Nobody just kisses for the hell of it and then walks away like it was nothing. But if you guys do start something together, make sure its what you want. Because when you just ended a relationship, and then kiss another guy, it tends to be a rebound and you're just looking for someone to take your mind off the pain. If thats the case- let the guy know. Maybe he's looking for a rebound too and you both can help each other out. But you have to be careful with this because as soon as 1 of you gets serious about the relationship, then all hell breaks loose and it causes more problems and drama.
If I were you- take a few days/weeks to yourself and think about what YOU want.
(Rating: 5) thanks :)