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hiya im 18 and female, for sometime now i have been questioning my gendre and wanting to be a boy. I walk like one, talk like one and i often dress like one as i find it more comforting, more myself. I just dont know how to bring it up with my parents, i am scared of there reaction. I have even researched all i need to know about the operations. How do I start the conversation of? please help me i feel trapped

you should realize.. parents are a whole generation different from ours. I know because my parents dont see eye-to-eye things with me either. I ask them if I can stay out past 1am and they say no. Its just how life works. So I think its more likely that your parents will be shocked when they hear about your sex change, because at their generation, sex changes weren't common. Its a new topic for them so they might be shocked. Be prepared for that. Expect that reaction.

I'm not sure how to start the conversation with them.. but just sit them down one day and tell them the truth. Say that some people, even yourself, have started to notice that you are acting more like a guy. You've thought about this and have decided to get a sex change. Ask them for their opinions and thoughts. Yes they will be surprised and shocked, so don't put them on the spot. Let them think about this and tell them they can get back to you with their thoughts.

If they get mad, well that's their problem. Its your decision. You're 18.. legally an adult. You can make these decisions for yourself. Parents are supposed to support you and take care of you. If they don't because of this.. well that's their fault. They should realize that you're their child and they need to look out for you and support you.

Good luck!

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(Rating: 4) info was good i will bare this in mind :) thank you
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