ask AdviceMistress



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



I really want to help people with whatever they maybe going through...so if you have a question please send me a message I would be happy to help!













Gender: Female
Member Since: July 12, 2004
Answers: 1539
Last Update: December 24, 2020
Visitors: 82673

Main Categories:
Work/School Relationships
Love Life
Friendship
View All

Favorite Columnists
shockren-b12
damiskus16
key_in_ignition
My boyfriend says that we haven't been together long enough to be married and I don't understand. He and i met each other when i was 16 and he was 17. He always told me that once we graduated from college that we could get married. We were in programs in college that didn't allow us to get married or we'd get kicked out. Now that I'm 23 and he's 24. He still hasn't proposed after 7 years.After all of the family christmases, sex and 'i love you's'... It hurts. Do you think we haven't been together long enough? (link)
You been together a long a long time yes but you're still a bit too young to get married. I understand that's its something nice to think about but you really can't rush it. Your boyfriend might be trying to figure out his career first before wanting to settle down. The career is the most important thing and you should do the same. Everything is different when you're married I'm sure and its a lot more responsibility. I'm 24 and my boyfriend is 25 and I love him with all my heart but I don't want to get married right now and not for awhile. I figure I want to finish school, find a career, and have fun in my 20s. There's plenty of time to get married and there's no rush. Isn't being with your boyfriend for right now enough? The "i love yous" are real I'm sure he doesn't need to put a ring on it to prove that. Don't rush it, just live in the now and have fun!


Rating: 3
He and i are both nurses and have been for two years.




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker