Member Since: June 5, 2011
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Last Update: June 30, 2011
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I am from india. My boyfriend is unhappy with me. All I can do is cry everyday. I dint treat well in the beggining. Gave my friends more importance n all..I cheated on him once and begged for forgiveness. He said forgave me. But everytime we fight he brings it up. Feels like shit.why is he still with me if he can't forget wat I did. He says he can't sleep without drinking every nite,make him very unhappy and disturb him a lot. But he says he can't be without me. I'm trying to change to make him, us happy but all he says is he's not happy with me. It hurts so much!! I really don't wanna live a life thinking how unhappy I made him. If I die maybe in my next life atleast ican be a better person. When we started going out he was the nicest guy ever! Then I changed. God knows why. I was really rude to him amd fought a lot. And he changed after that too seeing me all differnet.we both are so fuckn unhappy. He doesn't easily forget any small mistake I make. Anything I say by mistake also he'll fight with me. If there is any advice to make things normal again, please give me. Or else atlease tell me how to kill myself. Whatever I try I'm scared I'll end up alive and be a huge disgrace for my family.I really love him so much and I'd even die if my non existence makes him happy too. Its because of me he's like this now. I can never forgive myself. Never. (link)
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I'm sorry I could not figure out how to send you this message any other way . If he says he is going to give you a second chance and u want to take it then great, but it takes two to make a relationship work. Don't focus on messing things up because if you do then you will, worry about getting them right. Be faithful to him and loyal. Because if he is anything like you say he is then he is more than worth it because a good man is hard to find. And as far as him saying you are to friendly with men huh. Sometime we as women don't realize our laughing and conversation may be just us being friendly in our eyes but to the man or men we are laughing and being friendly with it may come off as flirting. So tone it down a notch. And maybe he need to be more confidant. But that is also something you have to build back up in him. He may have lost faith in you. Oh and by thw way since he want to work this out don't let him keep bringing up the past and throwing it in your face. Everyone deserves forgiveness. Reply back I want to know how u feel about this advice
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Number one. i slept with my ex back then. we had broken up and one drunken night i called and shit happened. my current boyfriend was studying in singapore.
Number two. i give too much space to guys, he says. ok whenever someone talks to my im extra friendly. i talk a lot. and this makes my boyfriend feel i have more fun with other guys n not him. i even used to talk to guys who had a crush one me. why wud i do that!
he fell for me, not for any physical thing. he was so totallly shy to make any moves on him. he treated so fuckin wel! but i took advantage of that. amd here i am facing the consequences. i deserve it. but im tryn to make things better. i really dono how to go abt making him trust me again. itll take some time.. after i posted my previous question, the next day he tell me he's gonna gimme another chance but i shudnt screw it up. we went for a movie n all had fun yday. loads. but im worried deep inside where id screw it up. noone has ever loved me like he did. noone treated me so special. its hard to trust guys these days. but him, he's one special guy. it's me who has changed him like this. into a monster.
hope i can change him back into the loving and caring guy, who used to make sure i was comfortable and then think abt himself. he was the perfect guy i had always wanted.. wat the hell do i do to change him back!!?
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