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Alright, there's a guy at my church who is a complete hit on youtube. He just got a record deal and he is sooo good at singing. He went to our local outlets and got mobbed with fans. I listen to his music and it's good, I dig it. He's a cutie and I would like to talk to him and maybe get to be his girlfriend if we get close enough. Now, my question is, should I talk to him about his music and how good he is? I don't know if I should let him know that I listen to his music or he'll think I am a crazy fan. I hear that famous people like to be treated like normal people because they are.
What do you think?
I am sixteen, female.
Thanks!
you could talk to him about his music, but most fans usually just talk about the music..
The one's that stand out are the one's that are different than the rest.
In other words- If all the rest of the fans are talking to him about his music, then you should stand out and talk about something different.
For example, talk to him about his other hobbies. Most musicians include their other passions inside the lyrics to their songs. Like one of his songs might be about his passion for skateboarding or something. So maybe listen closely to his music and listen to the text and see if something in there pops up that you could talk about.
Just be yourself and be normal. Maybe get 2 ice cream's and ask him if he wants one and then just casually talk with him. If he mentions music, just be like- "oh yeah I heard about your music. I really like it" and then casually switch the topic. If you linger in the music category, he could just think of you as a fan wanting to talk about his music, rather than a friend wanting to talk to HIM.
good luck and just be yourself :)
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