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20/f. I have always been pretty close to my mom, but right now we are just not gettingnalong anymore because she doesn't let me live. Honestly, she doesn't give me one minute alone. Today, she was going to go furniture shopping some place like 30 minutes away and I couldn't go with her because I had to study so I told her that I would rather stay at school and she started crying telling me that i don't love her anymore and that I ruined her day. Honestly, I really do have to study and these classes are already for my major so they count towards grad school. I thought about leaving to a different university because that is the only way she will really have to learn to live without me. But, I really like my school and I'm lucky enough to come here on a full scholarship. Aside from that, it's a fantastic school, not worth it to leave. I can't live at home anymore. And I don't have them money to move out. My mom doesn't listen to me. And shes like obsessed with me. She doesn't want me to leave her side ever. I know this isn't so detailed but I just want to break down and cry. I can't deal with it anymore and I have no brother or sisters to talk to. I have no one to side with me. Help!!!

Is there any dorms in your college? try to find a dorm to live in. If you do live in a dorm, you'll have the option to live with a roommate which will be a good choice for you. It will give you the chance to talk to someone and get close with them. You could even introduce your mom to their parents.

What your mom needs right now is someone close. She is probably thinking that you're the only close person in her life.. If you look at the big picture, you should be proud that she needs you. Yes, I do realize it can be frustrating. Ive felt the same way. My mother used to always want to be around me and would cancel my plans like sleepovers with my friends so I could spend time with her.. But my mom recently moved to a different country for work.. Now the only thing I can think about is wishing to spend time with her. I miss her so much right now :( So in the big picture, take advantage that you have your mom to be with. I know plenty of people who would do anything just to spend a few minutes with their mothers.

But yes I do realize where you're coming from. I get that its frustrating. You just need some privacy and space. Your mom really needs a girl friend to be with or a guy to be with. Try looking for some people like in your neighborhood and invite them over to socialize. Or ask some friends of yours in college if they have any body that needs a close friend to socialize with. Introduce your mom to them, and have them go out and have fun!

good luck and inbox me if you have more questions

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(Rating: 5) I think I needed to read this. Wile I realize that our relationship may not be healthy, I love her and wouldn't want to not be around her thank you for undersrtanding and for the wake up call
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