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Ok so my name is Melinda Grace but everyone calls me 'Gracie'and Im 13. And lately my dad's been really unfair to me and my twin sis Lissa because he let's our older brother Matt do whatever he wants but he doesn't let us do anything and he grounds us all the time. Like how a couple days ago Matt heard me tell Lissa about this boy that I really like. He gave me his phone number and I think he wants me to be his girlfriend. But when matt heard me tell that to lissa he told my dad that I had a boyfriend and I was hanging around boys all the time at school. So dad got all mad and took my phone and started to read the text messages that 'my boyfriend' sent. All the messages said was that he thought I was cute and he wanted to kiss me, they weren't even that bad. But dad started yelling at me sayin how I was too young to be flirting and talking to boys and that I shouldn't even be thinkin about boys. Bbut I wasn't even flirting and what's wrong with talking and thinkin about boys?! So dad kept yellin and I started to walk away and he grabed my arm and keeped yellin at me so I screamed at him to let me go and now he took my fone and my laptop so now I hav to sneak and use Lissa's and I'm grounded 'until furter notice'. Its just soo unfair! Matt has a different girlfriend every week and all dad does is laugh and joke with him saying how matt's jus like dad was when he was he's age but if I even think about havin a boyfriend dad goes nuts! That's not fair! Matt's only 3 years older that's not much of an age difference. Is it bcuz I'm a girl? What do I do to make Dad understand? Isn't he being mean and showing favorism just because Matt is a boy?
hahaha, its not favoritism, just a good old fashioned double standard. why is he being unfair? because he's a guy, and like every other dad faced with the situation, he's probably afraid that some bastard kid will be just as bastardly as he was to girls when he was a kid, to you. his behavior toward your brother suggests that at the same time, that he's still a guy. hell, my dad and I have the same rapport, though its more of a "hey, you'll never guess how this one cheated on me!"(eleven cheating girlfriends in a row has to be some kind of record..). well, either way, you're just going to have to put up with it. because all good fathers are like that, and if you think I wouldn't do the same thing with my daughters, then you're smokin crack.
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Thanks, your right. :) Oh and sorry about all of those cheating girls. HAHA! Not that thats funny... LOL Just kidding. :) Hopefully things are getting better for you relationship wise. Anyway thanks for the advice but the whole double standard thing is still unfair. I appreciate the advice =P
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