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My boyfriend chats with this other girl while we are talking and I'm not stupid I can see they are talking but he doesn't tell me. It feels like a knife in my stomach and I start shaking so I end up telling him good night and going to bed where I lay awake for hours crying. Now I know that is probably pathetic crying over a guy and all. But this is stupid. Why can't he just be honest with me and TELL me that he is talking to this girl or something. I hate her already. I've already talked to him about it last time when he said I was over reacting and I asked him to PLEASE tell me if he talking to her instead of letting me FIGURE IT OUT. Idk what to say to him today, I'm .... in a very bad mood.... should I avoid him or not... this is so messed up. He loves to say that "well I can be friends with whomever I want" I KNOW THAT OKAY GOD I KNOW!!!! But what if that girl is KILLING ME ON THE INSIDE... geez
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It's fine for him to talk to whoever he wants. I think it's fine as long as it's not like 24/7 and he's not flirting with her and stuff like that.
I guess I don't blame you on the way you feel though. Whenever I feel this way, it's mainly because I'm jealous and over thinking it all. I'm sometimes afraid that he's talking to her in a flirty kind of way.
I usually over react to that stuff because I did catch my ex talking to another girl about stuff they wanted to do with each other, if you get what I mean.
Anyway, not trying to make you paranoid but I just get how you feel.
If you bring it up to him alot, he'll probably get annoyed and you don't want to lose him right?
Let him talk to her and keep yourself calm about it. You have to trust him.
Don't be that over protecting girlfriend. Just keep calm and don't think about it so much. It'll be fine. Good luck!
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Thanks, I know I was over reacting and everying and I am glad YOU understand what its like. It's almost like a switch that just goes off and I guess I realize that I don't want to freak out on him because that would hurt him, I love him and I am gonna try and ... calm down, and not panic if they are just talking. But the same thing happened to me a few years ago. My boyfriend cheated on me with my former BFF ... so guess I was paranoid somewhat
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