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OK to start off I've worked with this girl for about four or five months now and we've just recently started full-on talking like a month and a half ago.

SO - We had been talking pretty intensively and I started to become interested in her, so I took the bold route and just came out and told her how I felt, her response was "I'm not really looking to DATE anyone right now because I had just ending things with my ex" Which is completely understandable and I told her I was ok with it because I didn't want to rush into anything either, and we've still been talking just as regularly ever since...

My question is, do you think there is a possibility she feels the same about me?

Hi,
I believe there is the possibility that she feels the same BUT I would look for more clues such as: if she makes physical contact (touches your arm/leg), smiles at you alot, sits/stands close to you, makes jokes that you both laugh at, asks to hang out alot, or she flirts with you on an almost daily basis.


She seems to want a relationship, but isn't ready to be hurt again. Any of the hints above would (most likely) mean she wants to be more than friends. Knowing how she acts towards you, will confirm your answer.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks, she does show signs like that, hugs, touching my arm, playful punches, and we talk almost constantly throughout the day unless shes at her other job, so thank you. This helps a lot.
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