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My girlfriend has been lying to me about smoking since we starting going out. I caught her about 6 months into it and a couple of times after that and she has tried but its not working out.
This question is for smokers
Would you be able to quit smoking for your boyfriend or girlfriend?
she says she loves me and wants to marry me but she cant do this even with my help it seems (link)
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I've had a friend with a similar problem as yours. Her boyfriend was smoking behind her back and she told him if he wanted to be with her, he couldn't smoke.
She eventually realized that you can't change someone. If they want to do it, they will. If they really want to stop, they will.
She might need help to stop, but you can't try and change who she is or what she does.
She's addicted to it, but she also wants to be with you.
Get her some other help, because you might not be able to do it alone since you've already tried. Good luck!
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thank you and thats what we're doing now, workign together to get her to quit
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