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Hi. I've lived quite a life since childhood. My parents divorced when I was 14. I was married at 19 and only lasted about a year and a half. Then I really explored my sexual side because I thought I was a failure with my parents and my own love life. For a while during that time, I thought I was going to become a lesbian because I was feed up with men. I traveled around the country and stayed at different relatives homes for a while. I even tried college for a short time but always felt lost. I finally settled down at 30 with a decent, loving man, that treats me well. I hope that I can help you if you decide to come to me for advice.
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I am a 17 year old Female, me and my boyfriend have been together from september 2007.... since december 2008 we have been having sex and from about Jan. or Feb. 2009 weve been having unprotected Sex.. and still now.. I do not want a child at my age.. i don't want to get pregnant but its like an addiction and no matter how much we worry about getting pregnant we still do it. i do not want to get pregnant and i don't want to bring a child into this world without proper care which i cannot provide at the time. but it bothers me that people out there get pregnant from a rip in the condom and i use no protection at all and i let him cum in me and i don't get pregnant... its not that i want to get pregnant, its just that i want to one day.. and i feel like i will never be able to.. i thought about it and figured out that that he's a heavy smoker and that might be why, don't worry he's of age and he's only a year older than me he's 19 and i'm going to turn 18 at the end of the year. but anyways its too early to go to the doctor to check because i'm still in high school but i'm always worrying..... has this happened to anybody before? what happened to you? and what suggestions do you have for me.
thank you
-Pearl101
You need to find a relative to help you get on birth control. They will understand your situation. If you really can't get make that happen, start making him pull out. It's not as romantic but it's a lot safer. I hope this helps and good luck.
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It Is A lot Safer We Used to do that until we learned about pre-cum and them from then on we felt as though a few more thousand Sperm won't make a difference (big mistake) I can't trust any of my relatives maybe my older cousins but i don't want them to have to go out of their way for me.. my mom doesn't know nor anybody else in my family.. my aunties are like gossiping teenagers and tell my mom everything they hear. and i disagree i think even withdrawal can be as romantic but the hardest part is after so much intensity remembering to do so, you definitely helped.
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