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Hi. I've lived quite a life since childhood. My parents divorced when I was 14. I was married at 19 and only lasted about a year and a half. Then I really explored my sexual side because I thought I was a failure with my parents and my own love life. For a while during that time, I thought I was going to become a lesbian because I was feed up with men. I traveled around the country and stayed at different relatives homes for a while. I even tried college for a short time but always felt lost. I finally settled down at 30 with a decent, loving man, that treats me well. I hope that I can help you if you decide to come to me for advice.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months. We haven't done too much together because I'm really scared to. I always hold back whenever I'm with him because sometimes I feel like I'll get too attached to him and we'll never last. My parents feel that having a boyfriend now isn't right for me. I know it's not what they think but I've always had their approval for almost anything and having a boyfriend is pretty serious for me. I wish they knew, but they obviously can't and I feel really bad. Also, my parents are moving four hours away, and eventually, I'll have to as well, just not right now. Also, he's cheated on me before and I seriously can't stand that girl or any other girl around him. I've also caught him telling a few white lies but I don't wanna ask about it because it'll make me seem like a stalker. He has freedom to go where he pleases, whereas I don't because my parents are strict. I get very envious about that and I don't know how to help myself. I trust him, I guess, but I don't trust his friends, especially girls around him. I feel like if we move any further, I'm going to become too attached. He knows I get pissed easily when it comes to him and I'm afraid that one day he'll just say he's done and he's tired of me. I can't help the way I feel because this is me being honest. I don't know what to do!
More than likely he's cheated on you more than just the one time. You only found out about the one time. He knows he's got you where he wants you. You're trapped at your folks and he's free to go and do what he wants. I think you know in your heart that he's not really the right one for you because you wouldn't be on here asking about it and having these trust issues with him. I think if you don't end things soon with him, he'll probably end up hurting you more than you already are. You'll find someone that treats you the way you deserve to be and won't talk to other girls without you knowing about it. I hope this helps and good luck.
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him and the other girl are just friends though. i think you're seeing it a little too negatively
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