I'm Em.
I'm a 20 year old English/History student living in Sydney.
I dig art, music and books.
I'll take questions on relationships, friendships, high school, uni, or whatever else.
I try to give the best advice I can, usually drawing on my own personal experience. But I'm not perfect, and sometimes when I look back on some of my advice it's far from it (especially when I was 15 and writing LiKe THiS). It's just advice, though. It's not an answer or a solution, it's simply a potentially helpful perspective. And that's all I can offer you.
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Heyy,
Im in senior year now , so obviously had to change schools. It's alot different and a drastic change,i still hang out/talk to my friends from my old school because they go there too, but they've all seemed to make new friends too. I try but i feel like i dont "fit" in with different groups. Feeling kinda left out. Maybe its because im insecure..but i still try and make conversation with people but its just like awkward..how do i make new friends that will like me and want to talk to me, because all my other friends have friends and im still holding on to the ones i already know, but i know we're alll gonna drift away eventually. Thanks in advance! (link)
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I don't think you should force it when it comes to friendships.
In march last year I started university for the first time and I didn't know anyone in my course. It was really daunting and I didn't really have friends in the first few weeks. Now and then I would say hi and talk to people that sat next to me but it was always awkward and nothing ever came of it. Eventually, I just spoke to someone that I clicked with. Over the next few months I clicked with more and more people and now I have a few friends from different classes and some that are really good friends. Some of these people also introduced me to their friends and my network of friends grew.
You will make friends in time, as long as you say hello to people and are nice people will have no problem wanting to get to know you better. It's hard when you're somewhere new and when you feel like your friends are drifting away, but you will definitely meet new, amazing people.
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