I'm Em.
I'm a 20 year old English/History student living in Sydney.
I dig art, music and books.
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I try to give the best advice I can, usually drawing on my own personal experience. But I'm not perfect, and sometimes when I look back on some of my advice it's far from it (especially when I was 15 and writing LiKe THiS). It's just advice, though. It's not an answer or a solution, it's simply a potentially helpful perspective. And that's all I can offer you.
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i have a crush on this guy but he has a girlfriend. im a cheerleader and he is a basketball player so i see his family a lot. his mom is always smiling at me. she offered to help me with my stuff once and she always makes sure she says hi to me when she sees me. once she even asked me what phone i was using and got the same one for her son. so anyway last night i had a dream about the guy and his girlfriend (we can call them ben and angel) anyway i dreamt that i saw bens facebook and peopole were posting on his wall things like "oh man it will be ok you'll get over it" and then i went to school the next day and angel was acting all buddy buddy to me like she was excited to see me. then she saw the book i was reading and then she was like "i was never really into sappy love stories" then all the other girls came over and were fascinated by her and she was talking to us all. i suggested we all add her on facebook. she told us her name and she was like "i know its a stupid name right?" so we all hugged her and the main part that really surprised me was that she looked at me as if i was competition to her. like she knew i liked her boyfriend or whatever. and i thought that was really weird. and the whole time this dream thing was happening i was wondering why ben was not butting in to talk with us since he was sitting right there.
what could this dream mean? any ideas? thanks (link)
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Not every dream has a hidden message, most are very literal. When you dream, it's little bits of your subconscious coming up into your conscious, and most of the time it doesn't really make sense. Your subconscious is this 'thing' that's like a big bubbling mass of confusion, but now and then little fragments make their way into our consciousness.
You know of the girl, maybe you have some sort of acquaintance like friendship or there's no negative relationship between the two of you. You like her boyfriend, and since you get along with his mother so well it seems more and more like you could be with this guy even though he does have a girlfriend. It does seem though that you're waiting for Ben to do something about it.
It sucks when you like a guy that has a girlfriend, and I think you're waiting for something to happen, like for him to dump his girlfriend and run after you. Maybe it will happen, maybe it won't.
You're young and it's a crush so I don't see anything wrong with you wanting to be with him. Just as long as you try not to flirt around him too much and definitely don't try to break up their relationship, then it's cool.
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thanks :) you were completely right about not having a negative relationship with the girl. and that im waiting for him to do something about it.
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