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I cheated on my boyfriend in the summer twice with my ex. Because he made me feel so insecure about our relationship. He never gave me a lot of attention, he never called me. He didn't text me very fast. My ex gave me a lot of attention and made me feel loved. And my boyfriend never gets jealous about other guys except my ex because we went out for 2 years. Also I get really jealous if my boyfriend talks to other girls or hangs out with them. My ex kept coming back to me even when I was going out with him. I keep cheating on my boyfriend with him though. Now I stopped. I feel guilty about it because I think my boyfriend has never cheated on me. I just don't trust him. Because he talks to a lot of girls and never gives me a lot of attention. All he does is buy me gifts and its always jewlery. But i feel guilty that I cheated. My best friend told me he deserved it. My boyfriend still doesnt know i cheated on him. On our anniversary last month my ex texted me. And my boyfriend responded to his text. And my ex's answer was "were more than just friends" and he got so mad. And his mom asked me if I was being unfaithful and I said no and lied. What should i do? Ive never cheated on a guy EVER. I've been cheated on before. Guys have left me for other people. How can I deal with this relationship? I need help from someone :( (link)
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Well, it doesn't sound like you are very happy with your current boyfriend right? I mean I'm sure there are tons of things you love about him and maybe that's why you don't really want to break it off. But if he isn't making you happy then you need to talk to him about it. If it just won't happen, then you might be happier with someone else.
Is there any chance that you would get back with your ex? Is that what he wants or is he just coming around so you can get with him then leave? If you guys had a good reason for breaking up then it's time to put the past in the past. Maybe there is a chance for you two or you could find someone way better. I don't know him so I don't really know what kind of guy he is.
You could always find someone else who might just happen to make you ten times happier than you were before. You will most likely be happier with a new guy than how you are with your current boyfriend. You might be happier than how you are with your ex. Good luck and I hope everything works out!
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