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Hi. I've lived quite a life since childhood. My parents divorced when I was 14. I was married at 19 and only lasted about a year and a half. Then I really explored my sexual side because I thought I was a failure with my parents and my own love life. For a while during that time, I thought I was going to become a lesbian because I was feed up with men. I traveled around the country and stayed at different relatives homes for a while. I even tried college for a short time but always felt lost. I finally settled down at 30 with a decent, loving man, that treats me well. I hope that I can help you if you decide to come to me for advice.

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Okay so I have this friend and she has told only me and my other close friend that she is bi-sexual. And well...I am kinda bi-sexual (I know you cant really be kinda bi-sexual but sometimes I dont like girls and alot of the time I do but anyway...) and me and the friend that is bi-sexual talked and she said she really liked me and I kinda liker her to. She is coming over either today or tomorrow and I know she wants to kiss me cause she has said it before and I wanted to know like how to flirt and how just to get into the kiss. Like do I just go for it do I give signals till she does it orr....how? Advice would be wonderful,
Thanks :)

Alcohol was a good ice breaker for my first time. It loosens the inhibitions and breaks down the walls. If she's not into alcohol then sit together on the couch and chat for a while and then suggest a romantic type movie to watch. If it comes to a romantic part of the movie, you may want to move closer to her and see what her reaction is. If she gets up, she may not be interested but if she stays still, you can go in for the kiss. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope you let me know how things turn out and good luck.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much :) She couldnt come over today because she got sick but we talked on FaceBook and she and I are really interested in eachother so I think it's gonna work out and we can hang out another time :)


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