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well there is this girl i think i like but it could be all in my head or it could be something psychological or maybe i just dont wanna like her but i do because everybody says shes a big step down from my other girlfriends and it would be like social suicide asking her out but i never really cared that much about that but i gotta consider it and it could be a bad relationship but it might not be cause we do talk and get along but it would be akward if she said no too because i have to be around her a good bit so what should i do

i say go for it :)

she could be the one.. how are you ever going to know unless you try??

do you really care THAT much what other people think..? does "social status" really mean THAT much to you..???

i'm guessing you're pretty young.. truth be told, dude you're never gonna see these people again in a few years.. what's the point in trying to "impress" people? why are you trying so hard to please other people?? don't you want to please yourself? do what makes YOU happy. not others.

if other people don't like you dating this one chick, screw them. they don't have to look at you guys or talk to you guys. if they were true friends, they would be happy that YOU'RE happy.

if they get mad at you because you date a girl who's not that "popular" they aren't true friends and you're much better off without them.

i hate when people talking about trying to be "cool" and keep their social status and be popular and trying to impress friends. its so annoying! who cares what other people think. if someone told you to jump off a bridge, would you do it? if someone said your shoes are ugly, would you take them off even though you love them?? if they said your girlfriend is ugly, would you dump her even though you love her??

its fine if your friends have opinions, but stop trying to impress your friends! stop trying to please everyone. please yourself. do what makes YOU happy.

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(Rating: 5) ok listen they joke alot and stuff about it..i dont care what they think and im the creepy gdark kid at a rednack school with a mohawk ...im not trying to be cool i just dont know if i really like her but i did ask her out but i havent got an answer and if someone made fun of my girlfriend(which they do) id fight for her pride or watever its called
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