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Well i've been with my boyfriend for four years, and i'm one of those girls who no matter how many times i hear that porn is okay i can't get it through my head and it still hurts, well i had learned to accept it as long as he did it when we weren't going to have sex, but i recently found out he does it like after or before we have sex i asked him not to because it bothers me and i caught him again, and after a while he admitted he had a problem and was addicted and was going to seek help, so i stumbled upon porn filters and i mentioned it to him and he said he wouldn't mind but i don't know how porn works with guys, will this cause him to want to do others girls now that he can't wack it to just the thought of others? cause i always researched how to accept your guy looking at porn and they always said " you should be happy he's trying to control it not doing the real thing" hes always looked at porn so i don't know what problems it's going to cause if i apply this filter. What do you guys think (link)
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Not all men use porn. This is not something you must come to accept or make room for in your relationship if you don't want to. Sure, probably every guy has seen some porn, but all men do go out of their way to view it.
If he wants to use a computer filter as a way of helping him control his viewing, that's his business and something he can do for himself. This cannot be something you do to control him.
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He said he wants me to help him he can't install a filter himself because he knows the password and that will do no help ? but im glad you actually agree that not ALL men use porn.:]
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