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18/f, ive been with this guy for 8 months now. i can't seem to believe in him, or trust him. he tells me that i'm the only one for him and that i have nothing to worry about, but sometimes i feel like its too good to be true. he tells me he doesnt think anyone else is hot or attractive at all. i dont think thats even possible :/ he's a man, and every guy ive ever been with has cheated on me, except him. before him, every guy i had ever dated has cheated on me. I guess that's where this all started, and now whenever he even says hi to a girl i cant help but get upset. I dont know what to do, i've tried everything. any advice? i know i need help, but i just dont know what to do anymore. i know its not right to get this jealous or upset, but i feel like i cant control it anymore.
please help,
Gina
I understand how hard this can be since you were only exposed to cheaters. But you need to keep in mind that not all guys cheat, you just got unlucky. Obviously don't just trust anyone, but if he can PROVE to you that he's only about you, I would give him a chance. Let him know about your past too so he doesn't just think you don't trust him just because.
(Rating: 4) he knows about my past, but thank you for your insight. its really hard for me to accept hes different since im so used to cheaters.