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Q: so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about four months now and his friend seriously has a thing for me so i told my boyfriend about this and he asked his friend and his friend just made it worse for me and said that i flirt with him this is the second time this has happened with one of my boyfriends friends and the weird thing is that he always believes what they say and i look like the bad one so what do i do about my current situation this guy just won't take no for an answer and it's really causing problems for me and my boyfriend
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You don't say how old you are, but if this is the second time you've confided in your boyfriend that one of his friends is coming on to you and he believes his friend over you I would be seriously questioning this relationship. He should be asking himself if you are the initiator then why would you be telling him about these other guys. You need to have a heart to heart with your boyfriend and let him know that it's important he trust you. No relationship is going to survive without trust. How he responds to this might just give you a better idea of where this relationship is heading. Good luck!

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