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okay so i have been with my boyfriend for a year now and our relationship has been quite unhealthy...(fighting alot, cursing at eachother, no trust, on and off) and recently we were in a HUGE fight and i went to a party and got drunk and high and i went with my bestfriend her boyfriend and his friend. and his friend is one of my bestfriends too so at the party he sat on my lap and turned to my and said "kiss me" and im not NO and hes lie comoen just do it and i gave him a kiss and I FEEL SO TERRIBLE ive been crying and i love my boyfriend i feel so terrible... also the boy i kissed is my boyfriends good friend so i cant tell him! or else i wont have a boyfriend or a friend :( idk what to do i feel so guilty its killling me im not happy anymore i just wanna be happy. please give me your advice. thank you.
i highly suggest telling your bf what happened..
A- you'll feel LOADS better that you got it off your chest
B- your bf would appreciate the fact that you're HONEST, and not hiding it from him
C- if he does break up with you, karma. it was your choice to get drunk and high.. numbero uno bad decision.. pay the consequences.
D- whatever happens..happens. everything happens for a reason. if he breaks up with you.. then it wasnt meant to be. if he forgives you, it teaches you a lesson never to do it again.
E- FORGIVE YOURSELF. the past is the past. this is the present. whatever happened in the past is over now. you cant go back and change it. why bother dwelling on the past if its just going to hurt you..?
F- learn from your mistakes.
there ya go. my biggest advice is to just forgive yourself, say sorry, move on. whatvever happens happens. just go with the flow. you cant change what happened.. so its just best to move on.
(Rating: 5) good adviceee.