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I am a 18 yr old f. Several answers would be appreciated. I have met a guy who I relate to in so many ways. I have never felt so comfortable around any other guy before; it feels as if I have known him for years. He is 35. My heart tells me it is so right, but my head tells me he might be too old. Usually I would think 10 years is a good gap to date someone, but my parents are 15 years apart... What do you think? I am very mature and I would never do anything that I'd think to be a stupid decision. Never drank or did drugs in my life and don't plan to. He has never done this either. Thanks in advance!

I am an 18 year old male, so you can't argue that I don't understand the situation. You are on here wanting us to say that it is okay to do what you're doing, when, although it is legal, it is far from ok. We are 18, so we are adults, but just barely. We've only been adults for a few months. Imagine if this had happened a few months ago, he would have been a pedophile and registered sex offender. Has so much changed in a few months? You have to realize that something is fundamentally wrong with him. Even though you will say "he's different, I know", I know that at 18, it's impossible to fully comprehend what is in his mind. He may seem more mature than any other guy you've met, and you may think you're more mature than any other 18 year old, but by pursuing anything more than a friendship with you, he is revealing that he is not very mature, or at least not wise.



Sorry if I didn't tell you what you wanted to hear, this is my honest advice and you can feel free to do what you want. Maybe he is different from all the other guys going out with girls half their age, if so, then my mistake. And yes, you did say you were thinking about something more than friends, when you said, "Usually I would think 10 years is a good gap to date someone". And by the way, yes I am 18, my birthdate is 9/18/92, I'm not sure why my page says I'm 17.

I was not trying to criticize you, insult you, or be condescending, I was merely giving the advice that I would give to anyone else who was in your situation. Good luck with whatever relationship or life decision you decide to pursue, I hope it works out for you in the end.

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(Rating: 3) Wow. What you say doesn't sound anything like me. I do not want you to say that it is ok, I would like people to give their honest opinions without critisizing a person. No, not much has changed in a few months. I still think assholes are assholes and that pedophiles/sex offenders go in the same catagory. I would never say "he's different, I know", I would say "that guy was nice" or "that guy is full of shit". It is a fact that he is maturer than any of the guys I know. I would rather talk to a person and know them before I go out and judge them. If I said I was 19 yr old wanting to see a 35 year old would it make a difference? No. Who said he wants a relationship as more than friends? Your profile says your 17.. what does that say about you?
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