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ok to start off im 14 and my gf is 13.shes my first girlfreind and im her first boyfreind.so i can sorta get y she i shy when it comes to saying i love you and other couple stuff but we have been dating 4 three months and we havent held hands,kissed, or even hugged but we have said i love you but she gets sorta uncertain about sayin but says it and means it.i just wanna get her out of her shell and dont get me wrong im pretty shy too but im trying to do these things but just havent been able to though but we still have a really good relationship i just want to take it to the next level so please help me any way you can (link)
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Well since this is both your first relationship then you both should be nervous so don't worry about that. Saying I love you is kinda awkward for only going out for 3 months and you guys are 13 and 14 but I think you should wait on that so it won't be as awkward and you both truly mean it. The first step is hard with holding hands and hugging.
Since she's a girl, and I'm just gonna assume she's like most girls when it comes to this, that she doesn't want to make the first move. So you should be the first to hug her and all that. Then try holding her hand once you guys get comfortable. My first boyfriend never did that either so I just assumed he didn't like me. Maybe that's why she's uncertain about saying I love you because you guys don't show it towards each other.
So if you want to put some effort into the relationship, I suggest you be the first to take these steps and just hug her and hold her hand. Good luck!
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ive tried to make the first move and its not a problem sayin i love you anymore hardly but i have tried to do all that stuff but it got meesed up the first time but only cuz of someone did something like sacring her for a joke and she moved then i havent got another chance since weve been at school around evrybody
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