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Played volleyball for over 10 years, also a coach. I love to try new things. Currently I'm trying the new sport of tennis and learning about my passion of photography.

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I have this "friend". We are constantly having fights and this time was the last straw for me. The other times I just tried to forget the past, which kind of worked. But not anymore. I finally called it quits.

But I keep thinking about him. My heart says be friends but my head says don't be. I know he is a mean, competitve jerk but I keep thinking about him.

What do I do?!?!

i was recently in a situation like this.. my ex boyfriend complained a ton and it was really annoying for me. my head was telling me to break up with him because it got too much for me to handle. his expectations for me were set way too high and i couldn't be who he wanted me to be. but my heart was telling me that i might regret the decision. my other ex before him dumped me (we dated for a year) and i was devastated. he told me that it was the biggest mistake he's ever done because he was that in love with me. so partially i was scared to dump my recent ex because i didn't want to make the same mistake my other ex made.. dumping someone and then realizing that they were the one.. i ended up dumping him because i realized that even if we do fight a lot, i still wouldn't be happy. yes maybe i do love him, but i knew that if we kept fighting and disagreeing, my love for him would fade.

so really.. its what you think is best for YOURSELF. don't let anyone's opinions influence you. do what you think is best for yourself. do you think you can put up with his flaw? if they absolutely make you crazy.. then try taking a break with him and see how you feel after that.

good luck!

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(Rating: 5) Thankyou so much for this. I'm so sorry about your ex-boyfriend. I can't be friends from him. Your advice really helped me come to this conclusion. He is just an annoying, COMPETITIVE jerk who will get pissed at me for anything I do. Even when I didn't vote for him to play a part in our drama play. THANKYOU! ♥
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