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so all my freinds like hip hop and rap but i think its kinda stupid.i like metal better.i also look like a headbanger too like i have a mowhawk,slipknot jacket, and the whole nine yards, but im kinda startin to like those other stupid songs but i dont want to.i couldnt imagine dancing n stuff to that kinda music and i feel weird when they play it but i really am starting to like it so please give me any advice possible.

dont base your friendships on music..

i have friends who like completely the opposite music i do. I have friends who like classical/orchestra music, i have other friends who like rap, i have other friends who like techno etc etc etc.

it just means that you have a unique group friends. and you know what? that's a good thing..

at my school, we have so many cliques. there's the popular group with basically listen to rap and hip hop only. then there's the band geeks who like weird music. my school is so cliquey its not even

you should be proud that you have friends who like different music. we need different in our society. dont be ashamed of the music you like. wear it like prada and be proud of who you are.

if you do like their music, then thats ok! there's no law that says you have to be against it. but there's no law that says you have to be in love with it. just like what you like and dont let other people influence your ideas.

also, dont let this whole music issue distract you from your true friends. if your friends like hip hop, dont push them away because of that. in other words, be friends with them for who they are. not for what kind of music they like.

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If you don't want to change styles... Then don't... Nobody is asking you to... I honestly really don't see your problem. It's not that big of a deal if your friends like a different kind of music. It's like not accepting a present because you don't like the wrapping paper..

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(Rating: 3) it only effects me not who i hang out with...i only have one freind who listens to metal like me but no one else does ....i dont wanna convert styles is all

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