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Do men really care what it looks like "down there"? I'm afraid to have sex because I feel like he will see all the little flaws down there like razor bumps and be grossed out or something. I guess what I really want o know is whether men really carre what it looks like down there. What do most men prefer it too look like?
Btw I'm 17 (link)
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I know I'm not a guy but I feel like I can help you with this because I went through the same issue. I was always so self conscious of myself especially when it came to sex or being intimate with a guy. Whenever a guy tried to go down my pants I would automatically push them away because I didn't want them to feel or see what was down there. Finally one night I was with this guy. Things seemed so comfortable and we started making out and he took off my pants, and then we fore-played, and then had sex. To be honest, he didn't even look down there. He was too focused on me instead of my body. When your actually having sex, you get so into it that you don't even think "what's he going to think about my flaws" because he doesn't notice them!! He isn't staring at your vagina, he isn't looking for your flaws, he is too focused on YOU. As long as you shave, trust me he won't care. I always thought "I have to be baby smooth down there or he will be grossed out." Then one night I hadn't shaved for a couple days and I was thinking oh my gosh he's going to be grossed out. He didn't say anything, he obviously enjoyed it. Even after having sex, I was still naked and started walking around because after being so intimate and close with someone while having sex, you feel like they just know, you. You can feel comfortable around them because you have that connection. Please don't let this stop you from being intimate with a guy. TRUST ME, they won't even notice :) If you have any other questions, please ask!
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Thank you so soo much!! This was awesome advice!
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