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Q: Hi, Ive broken up with my boyfriend recently (about 2 months ago) and im having a really hard time dealing with it. He has a drinking problem and is not very "trustworthy" when it comes to faithfulness. Of course he's begged for second (and third) chances, all which ive given to him, and now he wants another one. Im being firm by saying no, and now he is turning it around on me saying he's "tried" and thats it. All he ever wants to do is "SAY" he's sorry. He never wants to "DO" anything to show me. He said nothing he ever says is good enough for me. Please help :(
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Look it's not that nothing he says is good enough. It's he isn't good enough.
It sucks breaking up. I dig it. Being alone after you've been with someone takes getting used to, especially when they keep bugging you or trying to turn the tables on you.
There comes a time though, when you start thinking about yourself. You have a right to decide what job you want to work in, what college you want to go to, who your friends are... and especially who you wake up to.
If your dude is a non functioning drunk (some of us are charming when we drink) and had a problem being faithful to you, it sounds like this is not much to think on.
Be happy you are through with him. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.
Make a list of everything he has ever done wrong, every big fight you had. Take it out and read it whenever you have to get in the right mindframe to deal with it.
Your strong. You can do it.
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wow thank you so much! Its really nice to hear an answer from someone who doesnt know either of us. My problem is, he's done so much bad stuff, but I STILL cant seem to have it sink it to RUN away!!! He's bad news (for many different things) and I know all this....I mean if someone would tell me that they had a boyfriend that did all this to them, Id say "are u crazy? why the heck would u wanna be with that dude?!?!" Why cant I get to the "cutting all ties" point? I usd to have standards for myself....where did they go???
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Full time Jerk. Part time writer, adventurer.
I get drunk and answer your questions with the cold truth.
It saves lives.
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Male Location: TEXAS Occupation: Writer/Adventurer Member Since: January 3, 2009 Answers: 129 Last Update: November 2, 2014 Visitors: 14284
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