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Okay, three months ago I posted a blog about having mixed emotions with my boyfriend at the time. Im 17/f and he is 16/m. We was together for 4 months and I started having mixed emotions. Now its been about three months, and Im starting to want him back. I thought since I had mixed emotions it meant I didn't care about him like he cared about me, so I tried talking and hanging, and moving to a new level with other guys, but it just wasn't working. Seeing him flirt with other girls makes me jealous, and we hung out a couple of nights ago and he kissed me, and it felt good again. I recently found out he called me a "stupid fat ass bitch" because he said he knew it would hurt me and he wanted to just cause me a lil pain even though it was wrong because he's been going through hell for two months and ive acted like I was fine. A part of me wants him back, but another part of me doesn't because I don't want to get back with him and my mixed emotions end up coming back, and than I hurt him AGAIN. He says he doesn't care, he just loves me and wants me back. But I don't know. I want to be with him, but Im afraid mixed emotions will come back, but im not certain if they will.
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sorry misread....of course in any relationship
theres a chance you'll hurt the other person I know that, but thats life, and life is ment to take chances. so i think you two should try again, hes willing to give the relationship another try and so are you. Sure you might hurt him again, but I think its better to know if your really ment to be or not, then ask the question later what if?..and later on you may or may not hurt him but time heals the heart and he'll move on and so will you.
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Im not having mixed emotions now. I had mixed emotions with him, so the people told me to take a break from him, and see how I felt months from now. So I did. I am saying that I wanna be with him 98%, and the other 2% is because I don't want to hurt him like I did last time. Im not sure if I will, but its just the thought of hurting him thats keeping me away. When I had mixed emotions in the past, I told him as soon as they came up. I feel like I should always talk to my spouse about my feelings regardless if they are postive or negative. I've told him I wanted him back, but I don't want to hurt him again. I told him I can't tell the future, so I'm not a 100% sure if my mixed emotions will come back, and there could be a chance that they won't. He says if they do than that just means we aren't meant to be.
But like I said. Im not having them now. Im just afraid to hurt him, but when you get in a relatioship, you always have that opportunity to hurt someone.
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