Member Since: October 6, 2010
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My names Megan and I'm 18 years old. I'm in love with a boy who's the same age. We've been friends for two years, and we just started dating three months ago. I love the boy to death. Just.. lately I feel so distance. I don't know if its because it seems like he doesn't try as hard as I do or not. Almost every night I send him something sweet.. or something meaningful. The other night I sent him a paragraph of how much I wanted to be with him and admire him. He didn't respond. He claimed he didn't have the time to respond, which is understandable because he had a lot of plans that day. But, its happened numerous times. I asked him already if I do it too much, and he claims I don't and that he loves it. I threw him a suprise birthday party, bought him a kitten, wrote poetry for him, ect. I do anything for him, but not overly. I just.. I don't feel appreciated. All that I'd want is him to give me something small.. even if it were plastic. Hell, he wouldn't even need to buy it.. I just want proof he's trying. I can't explain it enough how trapped I feel. I feel like if I bring it up he'll take it offensively. So someone, can you please give me direction? (link)
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First things first you have to be honest with yourself. Only both of you guys know whats going on in the relationship. Your going all out for him sending him messages throwing party when as a guy he should be doing that for you espically if you treat him good. He has to realize that your not just going to keep doing things for him and he does nothing back. Maybe you are over doing it and guys feel when they have it they dont have to work for it. Here is my advice talk to him and let him know i feel unappricated i am your girlfriend and your my boyfriend i have needs just as well as you do and if you cant handle that i think we need to test the waters. If a guy is not doing anything for you or showing you how special you are to him than you need to stop being so nice. I know it's hard but you dont want to be use. A guy should always love you more than you love him remember that
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