Hey everyone,
I'm Sydney and I love life! I love my family, friends, and most importantly God. I just really hope I can help anyone that needs it, so if you have a question about anything or need help, I will try as much as I can to give you great advice to help. Alright, later!
LoVe
~ Sydney(:
Gender: Female
Member Since: September 5, 2010
Answers: 8
Last Update: September 11, 2010
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Hi I am 18f. I have a boyfriend that is the same age. He is respectful, understanding, loving, and the first nice guy I have really known. I have known him for five months and we have been dating for the last two of those. Before him, I used to think that I should always be single, just be friends, and not date. This is because dating can be complicated and all the guys I have known are jerks. Also, I have been hurt to many times by people in the past.
He lives 35min away from me, we talk almost everyday, and he comes to see me whenever he can. He has a warm heart, open arms, and I have never felt this way towards a guy before. He makes me smile.
He is the kind of guy where I just want to be friends with him, yet I feel like I want to be with him for a very long time. He does have a huge flaw that I don't know if I can get by. He doesn't love some things that I love.. and it makes me question whether he is the guy for me. I know you have to look past flaws, but this ones hard. Also, I know I should live in the moment, but I keep thinking that I might be doing the wrong thing, maybe cuz its new... I am just unsure. Please tell me what you think, thanks
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Dear Unsure,
I think that this guy sounds amazing. The way you describe, I dont know, I think you can just tell that you are really falling for this guy. The fact that he doesn't like the same things you like is actually normal. I mean guys and girls have different interests unless the things you like and he doesnt is your family or somthing big like that, then I think you shouldn't be too turned off by the fact that you don't have the same interests. I honestly think that you might just be subcontionsly scaring yourself out of this relationship because you've been hurt before. But I'm not you and I don't know whats in your heart. You have to make the ultimate decision if you want to continuing dating this guy. I hope everything works out!
~Sydney1o1
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