Hey everyone,
I'm Sydney and I love life! I love my family, friends, and most importantly God. I just really hope I can help anyone that needs it, so if you have a question about anything or need help, I will try as much as I can to give you great advice to help. Alright, later!
LoVe
~ Sydney(:
Gender: Female
Member Since: September 5, 2010
Answers: 8
Last Update: September 11, 2010
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Okay I was dating this guy for 7 months. We dated 3, almost 4 years ago and we broke up because his mom said our maturity levels were completely different. I was 14 and he was 17.
Now Im 17 & hes 20.
The day after we broke up, he made me a pinky promise that he would propose to me on my graduation day in 2011.
A couple of months ago, he came by to see my family because while we dated, my family got really attached to him. When he came over, I got butterflies, and I felt as if my knees could colopase. Its been 3 years, and yet he still gets to me. The way he says my name made my heart skip beats like crazy, and the way he smells just gives me chills. Butt we was sitting in his truck and he was bringin back old memories that I barely remembered, and that made me happy because he didnt forget. He told me once again that the pinky promise he made me was still going to happen, and that he was going to ask me back out when I was 18 because of the age thing. He cried, and he said he was still in love with me, and it scares him because he has got over all the girls he has dated, but not me.
Why do I still have feelings for him? Are my feelings real, or was I just excited and nervous to see him? And how do I know if he's being serious? He broke my heart once, I dont want it to happen again. (link)
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Dear Confused Still,
Well with the new information you gave me, I'm so sorry but I would definitly have to tell you that dating him would not be the best thing to do. If hes a "sexaholic" thats just red flag right there that he may just want to be with you again to have a good time. Also, if he may be a cheater that is a definite no. Never date a cheater, trust me. As for the communication issues you have that also doesn't help you to have a good healty relationship. I would just get out of it now:/ I wish i could tell you something different but you already said that you didn't have a good feeling about it.. but whatever you do is ultimitly up to you. Good luck!
~Sydney1o1
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Well I know its silly to ask if my feelings are real, because usually people are smart alikes, typically say "If you dont know if your feelings are real, than obviously they aren't". Im just not sure if they are real. Everyone says im only 17 and too young to know what love is.
But I dont think it takes a rocket scientist to figure out if you still have feelings for someone just as strong as you did 3 years ago, that made its real. I just always question myself, because I dont know if my mind is playing with me, or what.
As for the feelings I have for him; Im not real sure what ima do with them. It takes two people to make a relationship, so I'll keep my half, but I can't promise myself he'll keep his. He has changed alot over the past 3 years. He is now a sexaholic, and according to his family members-he's became a cheater here and there. I want to believe he wouldn't do that to me, but theres always going to be that little doubt that will stick in my head. I love him very much, but something is just telling me not to do it, and im not sure why. He goes weeks, maybe a month or two without talking to me than randomly out of the blue, he will text/call me like we have been talking 24/7. It doesn't make no sense to me. When I text him, he is short answered with me, and when I call him he RARELY answers, but if I don't answer his call, he's gets a little mad and texts me a lot until I do. Im so confused. :(
*Following my heart would be easy, but sometimes I can't tell the difference between it and my mind until after I made the mistakee. :(
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