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I was at a party last weekend. I hit it off with this guy, he's a senior, I'm a sophomore, he goes to a different school. I thought we really clicked. And we were back in the woods at this bonfire. We were just sitting by the fire, talking, for like three hours. People started drifting off but I didn't even notice and soon it was just me in him, I was sitting on his lap but he pulled me down so I was laying down and he was on top of me. I guess it was a little weird but I didn't mind too much at the time. I guess you could say we were dry humping, but he was really really forceful, like pushing really hard and kissing really hard and grabbing really hard and stuff. Granted, he is six foot four, 190 lbs of football/basketball/baseball toned muscle and I'm 105 pounds of 5'5 haha soo... I think he was trying to be gentle? I told him a few times, "not so hard" and it wasn't so bad when I was on top of him. We went out last night too, and he told me he really likes me, but we didn't make out or anything. I really like him and stuff but I'm worried our physical relationship might be bad... What should I do?? (link)
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Next time you are together, say something like:
"Rupert, I like you and would like to get to know you better and (be sure you say 'and' not 'but')
I feel that we've gotten way too physical too fast. Can we dial it back?"
The 'and' and not 'but' is a big difference, it's almost as if 'but' wipes out everything you said before that word.
If he doesn't want to take several giant steps backward, I suggest you end the relationship.
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its not that we moved too fast... its jsut how rough he is haha
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