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18/f my so called best friend Skylar is a huge liar. Like she'll go somewhere with her Friends, and tell me she was babysitting. She did something horrible last year, she pretended to be someone and told this girls boyfriend that she was cheating on him and stuff like that. She is just such a liar. She is fun to be with. But I saw her in school
today and I couldn't even look at her. I'm so angry and I just don't know What to do. I haven't texted her Nd she hasn't texted me. If she texts me I know it's going to
be so hard not to say anything. I know she knows Im mad because I heard she was talking about me. She leaves me
out of things and obviously doesn't think of
me the same. Wha should I do?

Hey there,
Did she just turn into a liar recently? Or has she always been a liar? Either way... lying is not how you make friends or be a friend. What she did to that girl when she said she was cheating on him, is nasty and cruel in so many ways. That poor girl was probly having serious fights with her boyfriend after that and she may have cried too.

I know what it is like for someone you think is your friend, to go behind your back and others backs and be so terrible that you do not want to look at them or be around them. You not being able to look at her... is a clear sign to stop being her friend and find friends that respect you and others. When she texts you, tell her straight up that you don't like how she lies and treats people like dirt. Tell her that if she doesn't stop lying and being hurtful, you will stop being her friend. Since you do like hanging out with her, give her one chance to stop how she is acting. If she blows it, let her go find new 'friends'.

If you keep her around, she will end up hurting you way worse than she already has... then you will be sorry. She is not worth your time if she is making your life miserable. There are many real friends out there that will help bring the best out of you. Once you find them, you will be grateful

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(Rating: 5) Thanks, yeah I know I should stop talking to he and probably will, it's just hard to do this when she has been my friend for 10 years
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