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lets go with me and my boyfriend have been having sex im on birth control and when i started going on birth control me and him started not using condoms and i dont really like using them. well the other night he was like i wanna try a condom with lube ok lets try then again last night he used a condom and i was just thinking why again? so i was like um no were not using those i dont like them and hes like really and i go yah. then no b.c i didnt want him to get mad. now all i was thinking hes having sex with someone else wtf! and i felt like if i asked him that hed filp b.c it might or most likely not true. so basically the mood was torn and he got mad b.c i left him hanging and now its weird. and i was like if your going to change the way we have sex you should tell me why and he said it hurt last time with out one then i dont want babies and w.e so your telling me three diff reasons and i was like your not the only one having sex with me here so i think i should know why and he like ignored me on that question. so i dont know what to do.
and just a reminder im well old enough to be having sex and me not using condoms is none of your business so i dont like to hear that i should be using them i know all i need to know, ive had one partner so has he. (link)
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You are worried that he's having sex with someone else, but you believe him when he says he has only had one partner? And how many people has that one other person had sex with? You should know, because in terms of STDs, you are having sex with all of them.
Birth control does a fairly good job of preventing pregnancies, but does nothing to prevent the spread of a long list of sexually transmitted diseases that your current behavior puts you at risk for getting and passing on. Condoms can decrease the odds of you contracting them. I know you don't want to hear it, but that's the truth and your attitude doesn't alter those facts one little bit.
You're being smart about birth control, why not be smart about disease as well?
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that one partner is me but okay. u can retype your advice if you want.
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