Member Since: July 29, 2010
Answers: 302
Last Update: March 19, 2011
Visitors: 17881
|
| |
|
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half... I love him. I know I love him. We've been dating for a long time and we were friends for yeeeears before that. I know him inside and out, all his flaws and chips. The only problem is, he gets really really mad when I party. Which... okay. I know. I'm sixteen, I shouldn't be partying and drinking but still! I don't know... it's hard for me to argue it when he gets mad at me but I don't think he should control me. Ugh I just don't know what to do... My friends all party and drink so they'll say "foreget it, he'll get mad for a day and then get over it". Which is true but I hate disappointing him and making him mad when I know he only cares about me... I mean, I'm a teenager! He doesn't want to drink because he's working to get a football scholarship and can't afford getting caught. He doesnt' want me to do it because he's scared I'll get drunk and stupid and that he won't be there to protect me. Also he says its wrong... which it is. Gosh I don't know what to do!! (I'm sixteen/girl; gonna be junior, he's seventeen/boy; gonna be senior.) (link)
|
let's make sure we have this right....
Your boyfriend does not like it when you do X.
When you do X he gets mad and dissapointed.
You agree that doing X is wrong.
So you both think that doing X is wrong.
But you want to keep doing X so that you aren't being controled by him.
...Which sounds like you are being controled by X.
Make up your mind. Very soon it will be "me or the parties".
|
|