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My bf doesnt really seem to be on point as far as being professional in the future i know i deserve better its not that i have a self esteem issue because i know i can get anyone i want so why is it so hard for me to leave my bf and find better, is love really that blind
My friend has the same problem with her boyfriend. She is going to her first year of college and he is going into his senior year in high school. He isn't the nicest person, especially to her. One time her phone was messed up and she couldn't answer a text from him for about an hour and he got mad at her and didn't talk to her for two days, he tells her to eff off and to leave him the hell alone. She just doesn't get that he is rude and she deserves someone so much better. I believe her problem with not leaving him is because they have been together for three years and she knows that he is madly in love with her and wouldn't want anyone else. So, is that it? Do you know he loves you so much and you'd feel bad to leave him? Do you just not want to go out and find someone else worth your time and love? Maybe you are just as off point as he is when it comes to the future. There are a lot of things when it comes to this and to answer your question, yes. Love is very blind. It can make you do the craziest things, like staying with a guy who you know isn't worth it. Do what's best for you, do what makes you happy and will make you want to be in love.
Good luck.
(Rating: 5) He doesnt treat me wrong he's a very calm person. I think im over reacting because im trying to find some one who matches my moms description of a perfect guy for me. I love my bf with all my heart and besides the whole money thing he is the perfect guy for me