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Okay, so i am your typical teenager gilr. I am going to the 8th grade, well alot of my friends have made out and sent some pictures to there boyfriends well i dont really know if i am ready for that. I am the far behind one because i cant talk to my mom about kissing or anything she will spaz out. But is this a bad thing that i dont know how to make out.? I just dont understand the point in it. And i ge made fun of all the time because of it. So should i do this or should i just say the way i am.? Help please. (link)
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If you are uncomfortable with this, and it sure sounds like you are, don't.
There is nothing as painful as having caved and done something you really didn't want to do in the first place and regreting in, and in most cases, having lots of other people be told some version of the events, that may or may not be true, by the guy.
Anyone who is making fun of you for not making out is not your friend - friends support and encourage one another, not belittle each other.
Kissing guys should wait until you know a guy well and really like him and feel respected by him - it's an act that should be an extention of our emotions and care of someone else, not something you have to hurry to cross out on your "Becoming an Adult" check list.
Typical teenager going into 8th grade? Perfectly normal not to have "made out" with anyone. Your acquaintences are rushing things, and, if your school is normal, many of them are lying about what they have and have not done. Guys, too.
Wait till you are ready and a very special someone is there.
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