HEY! im a 18 year old female from Canada. I love helping people and giving advice. It truly makes me happy when i help someone and i plan to make a career outta this.Im planning on being a youth/child worker. Helping people is in my blood. Im a very down to earth girl, shy, outgoing and has a bit of a attitude at times. Making peoples lives better and happier is my alltimate goal in life! If you have any questions for me, id be more then happy to answer them. V
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17 female
i am never good enough for myself. it doesnt matter what i do, ill always hate my body.
ive struggled with bulimia because i have always hated my body. my entire life has consisted of me never being happy no matter what weight i am. recently i lost about 15 pounds by exercise but i still hate my body. i look in the mirror and just see the things i hate, like my belly. i feel like the same person as before. like i said before, i struggle with bulimia, but i work hard at it. what i want to know is do you think im anorexic? i must say though im not skinny. and i feel like only skinny people can be anorexic and bulimic, so thats one of the main reasons ive never told anybody about it. i feel like if i told someone then they would think like "wow, you would think that she would be skinnier if she were bulimic."
idk, i know most women hate their bodies so maybe its sorta normal. like i said, ive never told anyone about this or any of my weight issues. everyone knows me as the funny, laid back, no drama chick. i also have a really hard time opening up to people about stuff because i hate feeling vunerable.
i just want to look in the mirror and be happy with myself no matter what i look like. can anyone help? (link)
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i get wat you mean, im the same way. personally, women everywhere critize about their bodies, and its in our nature to do so. Everyone had at least one thing they dont like about them selves. But to other people that one thing may be beautiful. I dont think your anorexic by any means. Loosing 15 pounds by exercising, thats awesome! just b carful and be consious about your weight and not to go over board. and its not all about your weigh, its has alot to do with your hieght as well. You could be very tall and still be heathly still having some weight on. You can be short and be very skinny and still be healthy, its how you see yourself. And i think you should talk to someone about your feeling on your weight, it helps alot trust me. If you ever want someone to talk to, im always here. Everyone is beautiful in there own way. Theres gonna be people fatter than you and theres gonna be people skinnier then you. You have to be the one to decide what is a heathly weight for you and works best for you. DONT WORRY ABOUT WAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK! trust me it will get you no where, just make you feel worse about yourself. Hope this help! If you have any more questions, im here and glad to help. Good luck!
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Thank you so much. Seriously this does help a lot
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