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i met this guy online
he lives 15 min away and wants to hang out
i know he's real cause i video chatted with him
but i think all he wants to do is hook up (actually, i know. he straight out told me he wants to.)
im 18 years old, never been kissed (i know, pathetic)(and he doesnt know about this, i was too embarrassed to tell him)
hes not a virgin
idk what to do!
should i take a risk and hang out with him(he could end up being my first kiss! but i feel like he wants to do more...)? am i stupid for even thinking about doing this? and he keeps telling me im beautiful and stuff.
idk what to do! :| (link)
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Deep down you know that you do not want to end up being used. You don't want your first kiss to be with some guy who could turn out to be a bad, embarassing memory.
He has made his agenda clear. It doesn't sound like your agenda.
There is nothing pathetic about not having had a kiss at any age. Don't start feeling like this kiss or making out or having sex is something you have to hurry up and "get it over". What a sad introduction to something that should be wonderful. You deserve to be charished, not to be somebody's Friday night hookup.
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thank you for the response :) as much as i want to have that first kiss, i know he definitely isn't the person i'd want it to be with. i'm still gonna talk to him, but maybe get to know him a little better and find out his honest intentions before possibly hanging out. thanks again!
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