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i caught my bf having intimate conversations with a web cam girl. He showed her pictures of himself and our pets. he made a note to remember her birthday and wrote love _____
apparently the web cam went two ways.
i find this really creepy and im having a hard time getting over it and trusting him. we have been together 6 yr and are getting married soon.
my question is is this cheating?
will they do it again?
is this a warning sign of things to come?
personaly i feel like this is more of an emotional cheat, but also its grose... and im no prude. I love him alot but i dont understand why he would do this to me. plus he has been turning me down for sex... so im lost (link)
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If there's any kind of emotional investment or flirting or even chatting extremely often, then I'd consider it cheating. He can't share his heart. If you're getting married, his heart needs to belong to you, not to be shared with another girl, even if its "just chatting and webcam". Talk to him! That can't go on, and you need to have a trusting relationship. Are you having premarital counceling? I bet it could help if you do and bring that sort of thing up.
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