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i am a 16 year old female. he is a 16 year old male. okay so on sunday night my boyfriends mom made all these new rules and stuff and i couldn't handle it so i broke up with him. (i regret it and i did not mean it. i said it bc i was pissed.) he went insane that night and i found out the next morning he spent the night in the hospital because he threatened to commit suicide. we hung out that day for 2 hours to talk bout the break up. he said he did not mean it when he said he wanted to commit suicide. he asked his mother if we could hang out longer and she said no. he went insane again and went back to the hospital. i havent heard from his since. i called his cell 3 times yesterday and on the third call, his mom answered. this is our convo.
Me: hey is ****** there?
her: no he is at the hospital, you can't visit him
me: okay well can u have him call me back when he gets out:
her: no, you guys aren't allowed to talk anymore or see each other.
me: ok.
there was a little bit more. but yeah. so now we are not alllowed to see each other or talk ever again. it's hard because he completes me. i am not sure if this is a test to see if our love is really this strong. but i am scared that he is gonna come back and not have any feelings for me anymore. so i don't know what to do at this point. She is controlling him and has the whole relationship. I have talked to a lot of people and all i can do is blame the mother. She makes him uncomfortable which makes me get uncomfortable which then makes him freak out. i really dont know what to do.. please help. i need imput and advice (link)
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1st off, let me just say that that really sux. I'm sorry things aren't going too well. You might want to look at this story from some one else's shoes, like the mother's for instance. I'm not sure what her new rules were, but I'm sure she meant the best when she began to enforce them. And when you broke up with him because of her actions I'm sure she took it as badly as a slap in the face. Now that things are over between you and him, she probably wants to protect him from the events that occurred after the break-up. She's just trying to keep her child's safety in mind, although it seems to me like she's making things worse in the process. I think your best chance of making a happy ending for this story is trying to reason with his mom. Try to be as nice as possible, or else she may not waste her time talking to you. There may be alot of restrictions and even more new rules if she lets you see him, but you might not want to compain this time around...
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eh i see where you are coming from. but she is really immature! she has 2 other kids ( ages 4 and 6) and they will be upstairs in the shower and she will be downstairs on facebook. the 4 year old will call for mama but she just ignores them. she puts on a good show for every one else but she is really the worst parent. and she used ot love me sooo much! she just gets jealous. but i think i will just wait untill later to date him because i mean she wont change her rules. so there is no point
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